Hello, Creative HSPs! ❣️
Today’s topic came to me via a feature I read in Freelancing Females’ newsletter entitled “Can Everyone Freelance?”
If you’re already deep in the self-employment trenches, you’ll know that if someone asks you what you do, and you say “I’m a freelance writer” or “I’m self-employed”, it sounds intriguing. However, most people have no idea what freelancing/self-employment actually entails.
Honestly, I didn’t fully understand what was involved before diving into full-time freelancing. And yet, as a Highly Sensitive Person who also struggles with anxiety and self-doubt, I’m still proud of myself for taking the leap into self-employment before overthinking and pulling back.
And, if you’re a creative Highly Sensitive Person, I encourage you to try freelancing, understanding what’s involved will save you some heartache and headache.
Freelancing Myths
Here are a few of the misconceptions I’ve encountered regarding life as a freelance copywriter:
Payment/accounting systems aren’t necessary
One needs to be super outgoing & extroverted to be successful
Expensive software or equipment is needed before getting started
Negotiating skills regarding fees, deadlines, word count, etc. aren’t part of the process
All clients will be bullies
All clients will be easy-going
Finding paying work is almost impossible
You’ll constantly be able to write about topics you find appealing
The Truth
The truth about investing in systems and hardware:
It is important to have some systems in place. Your hardware and software doesn’t have to be super expensive or the fanciest model but your clients will expect you to have one of the latest updates of MS Office or Apple software (and understand Google products).
You’ll also need some kind of invoicing or accounting system - at the beginning you can use a free version but, as your client list mounts, you’ll likely outgrow it and move into a paid system. I enjoyed Freshbooks (not an affiliate mention).
The truth about getting & keeping clients:
The truth is you’ll find a wide variety of personalities as you go through your freelancing journey.
No doubt, you will encounter bullies and difficult personalities as you move through your career. As Highly Sensitive People, we tend to be in touch with our emotions & people pleasers which doesn’t always serve us.
As your self-confidence and portfolio grows, you’ll be able to weed out unsavory clients.
The truth about getting gigs:
Similarly, while it’s not easy to find paid gigs, it’s not impossible either.
Being strategic yet focused, building solid relationships with other freelancers, providing excellent client relations, and being savvy about how you use your time will help you grow your freelance business.
See the “Opps and Pops” segment below for more intel and opportunities.
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Opps and Pops
Veteran freelancer Natasha Kueller Relph offers insights for freelancers on LinkedIn
Freelance Framework — daily freelance writing gigs delivered to your inbox
For the Love of Freelance podcast
Central Station in Toronto is looking for freelance graphic designers, production designers, art directors, and copywriters
Experienced Freelance Medical Writer — Omnicom Health Writers, New York — pays $90-$130/hour
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Until next time, HSP Copywriter — Stay real.
Lisa
I appreciate the way you contrasted between the myths and truths of being a freelancer. You explain this all well and I agree on every point. For awhile, I thought it was a deteriment that I wasn't an extrovert or had tons of energy. Thankful to realize now it's about who we're connecting with and the right people make all the difference.
Also, YES to systems!!! I am a big advocate for business organization -- planning out processes and having the tools to help you manage it all. It's definitely important to have a way to track finances and keep your accounting in order. When we're organized that also helps our clients too. It builds more trust into our relationships and reduces a lot of communication issues.
Wonderful article, Lisa!
Great perspective. It's never been easier to start your own business, in regards to systems and tech. But we still face the same head game. Thanks for sharing all these resources.